RELATIONSHIP

WHY IS HE NOT CALLING ME

Written by chofam

Many questions bother relationships and this is one of the most occurring one. Before taking this route, ask yourself this … Does he know you think he values the relationship less because he hasn’t had a phone conversation with you for a while? That being said, It’s normal if you want to know why he has not called you. A week is a long time when you don`t hear from someone you love. Demanding an explanation is only a right you need to exercise. You must call him and ask (if you’ve not done so already),” I`ve been worried about you, are you okay? ”. As you speak with him, you really have to Pay close attention to whatever his responses are.
Is his answer direct or is he full of excuses. His answers will tell you where you stand in the relationship, if it’s the end of your relationship or an adjustment is required. Time shall tell you this, That he has not been calling you for sometime does not entirely mean well (If he has no good reasons). Be prepared to accept that a new relationship might just be around the corner.
A reliable research reveals that:

1. IF HE DOESN’T CALL, YOU CAN ALWAYS CALL:

Yeah it has to be so. If the only thing that poses a problem in your relationship is the calls, then there are reasons limiting him from calling (assuming everything is okay with your relationship). Never force anything if it’s never meant to exist for if you do, the resultant may not be pleasing.
Definitely, from his attitude you’ll know if he’s lost value of the relationship and you may have to move on.

2. IF HE DOESN’T TAKE YOUR CALLS WHEN YOU CALL, SOMETHING IS WRONG!

It’s either he’s not okay or it’s a bold sign on the wall telling you it’s time to move on. But if the earlier be the case, you should listen to his explanation and together you two can sort it out if there be a way out. Never rush conclusions in relationships for there are always problems in relationships and the only way is to work things out.

3. SOME PEOPLE DON’T LIKE TALKING LONG HOURS ON THE PHONE:

Me for one don’t really enjoy talking too much on the phone, I prefer texts and chats. Find out if he falls in this category. There might be a little problem here if the two of you like different means of reaching out to each other. You may prefer calls while he prefer chats. If that be the case you should find a way out of it. Always remember that for relationship to work, partners must give up some things they like just to create comfort for their relationship.

4. HE NEEDS SPACE:

In relationship sometimes people need some space for reasons best known to them. The only issue with this occurrence is that some people don’t spell it out before taking the space. It’s advisable you tell your partner that you need some space to do a thing and even if they seem not to understand, you’ve already passed the message to them.

5. HE MIGHT BE IN THOUGHTS ABOUT A WRONG IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP:

Some men wouldn’t take your calls if he’s lost in thoughts about a wrong or two in their relationship. Although it’s not the best way to go, it happens and you have to be patient so you’ll eventually know what went wrong or right.

6. HE’S BUSY:

This may not be your case but time comes when he gets busy even when it’s not convenient. At this time, calling might be very important to you but insignificant to him, even when he loves and misses you dearly.

Fnally, I think you might be placing much importance on the calls. Yes it’s important you two stay connected through: Chat, talk, text, and others . It doesn’t really have to be just calls. Otherwise, folks in international relationships , folks with a spouse in the military or that goes away on business often couldn’t afford to keep their relationships up and couldn’t keep up with serious relationships. Besides, not everyone likes talking on the phone that much.

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